Cyber Heart

R.I.P

2011-12-29T08:38:00.000+08:00

Death come out of no where and suddenly...my friend lost his brother and father in one week time...I don't know how to console my friend....what I can do it pray that the deceased will reborn in a happy realm...free from suffering....and also wish that my friend will step out of sadness and move on...because the deceased will always want you to be happy and free of suffering....so let us transfer our merits to the deceased to help them free from suffering in the future...sadhu sadhu sadhu!!

Change

2011-11-29T10:18:00.000+08:00

What you think will become your action,
What you do will become your habit,
Your habit shaped your destiny!!

Most people know this but they refuse and scare of change...they forget what we do today shape our future...want good future...change what is not good just like cleaning your room....clean your mind...just like the Buddha say "purify your mind"

2011-11-21T09:12:00.000+08:00

天堂地狱不在未来，天堂地狱就在现在！
善恶一念间，一念天堂，一念地狱!

2011-11-15T17:27:00.000+08:00

http://www.justbegood.net/index.htm

A website to learn more about Buddhism and meditation...it provide explanation,power point,picture,dhamma talks mp3,songs,....etc....go and try it for yourself...ehipasiko ma^^

2011-11-09T08:51:00.000+08:00

犹豫，就会错过很多！

心动，就要行动！

曾经的心动，带给别人，也给自己新的心动.....

"PBUPM 45th Anniversary 心曲 "

希求，向往

2011-10-25T11:10:00.000+08:00

有机会在马大佛友之家“华雨学苑”住了两天，他们给我的感觉就是“温暖”，让我有股冲动想住在那里。华雨学苑的住客所表现的都是我心中对佛友之家的向往和希望，只是我在UBF佛友之家没有这份温暖而已。当然，学长的家也会有这份温暖，但每次相处都会觉得自己是局外人，好像不被需要一样。我也想和学长谈笑生风，可以和他们分享快乐伤心，但......我真的不知道该如何呢！我也很想说国能大学佛学联谊会是我想回去的家，但是却不敢面对学长（不知道为何）
每次看到学长和junior或外校生都能有说有笑，他们做一些事都会称赞一下，我可是四年都很少听到称赞，有的只是不满和怪责。有时我会想，我真的一个地方都没有可以称赞的吗？那么差吗？虽然有时觉得这想法不应该，但心里真的很想和学长谈笑生风，享受那份温暖，虽然好像很执著，但那也是我心里的希求和向往。不知师父知道了会不会“shoot”我？哈哈！！　

2011-08-08T09:27:00.000+08:00

Strong person will take strength for granted and may misused it;
Weak person knows the value of strength;

Quoted from "Captain America: The First Avenger"

Different

2011-08-08T09:22:00.001+08:00

I watched Rise Of The Planet Of The Apes last week...it a movie with lots of action and emotion...it just a monkey try to adapt to society...where difference is feared...he learned how people treat difference in the hard way...I can felt his anger...his despair...his fear...where he decided to revolt and take his kind to paradise where he call "home"....

Although this is about human and animal...but we all try to adapt to society...well I am....sometime we feel alone and deserted within friends...like we are different...yeah...we can laugh and play and cry together but in the end we just can't blend in...I don't know about you...but I do feel different sometimes...

I want to be like him...talkative and popular...everybody likes him....but if you think deeper...I want to be like you and you want to be like me...even if it is true...we won't be satisfied...our desire is limitless...in the end we want more...more...and more...so STOP it....accept that we are unique...adapt to life by finding our own inner peace....purify our thoughts and action....create our own paradise in heart....and one day we will be like the Buddha....peaceful and free!!!

Change

2011-07-13T13:10:00.000+08:00

Change...we wanted to change but our heart don't want to change...change sometimes is painful and hard...but change brings more things to me to help me learn and improve...we say we wanted to be as good as the Buddha but why now we still have to endure suffering and all the attachment in our heart...because we never change ourselves...never wanted to change for the better...to be more like the Buddha...change is painful and hard but it brings more than we can ever imagine...change help us learn and improve to be a better person...remember change our ways of thinking and we can change the world...with a little determination and wisdom.....^^

Sharing^^

2011-04-08T08:22:00.000+08:00

" Reality is prison. The mind can set you free! "

Interesting quote from the movie Sucker Punch. It makes one think.....we always swing between happy and unhappy states of mind....always fighting hard to be happy.....is that a prison in one sense?? The mind always change but we can control it through practice.....there once a man say the mind creativity knows no boundary....it can connect to anyway, anytime and any place in just instant.....Venerable Ajahn Chah say:" Happy and unhappy is just in the mind and not the people or things around us." This say once more the mind is the reason we swing through happy and unhappy....but with practice and faith to the Dhamma, our mind can set us free....!!!

世界上没有偶然

2011-03-23T15:20:00.000+08:00

世界上没有偶然，有的只是必然。

必然是要靠自己创造的．不去试一试．怎么知道什么才是真正的“必然”呢？

别说自己命运是命中注定了，不努力怎么知道结果？

负担

2011-03-10T14:52:00.001+08:00

“你思想负担太重了，把握住这一刻，那下一刻就会好起来的！”

在小说中看到有趣的一句话......我们很容易把很多东西都放在脑里，不管是开心不开心，或愁或忧或喜或仇, 把什么都放进脑里面.....我们一直想着以前，想着未来，从来没有专注现在应该做的事情，所以才会说很多东西做，时间不够用的埋怨......我们很少能放下，只是专注于现在，放下以前，放下未来.....因为以前已过去了，不能再改变.....未来还没有发生，想来也没有用，而且希望越大，失望越大，因为未来的形成是现在行动影响才会发生的.....放下不必要的想法，抛开所有负担，别再给自己压力了，只要能专注于现在，努力做好自己，未来的路一定会为我而开.......

刘德华 - 悟

2011-02-28T08:19:00.001+08:00

悟

演唱:刘德华
作词:刘德华
作曲:赵钦

无量心生福报无极限

无极限生息息爱相连

为何君视而不见

规矩定方圆

悟性悟觉悟空心甘情愿

放下颠倒梦想放下云烟

放下空欲色放下悬念

多一物却添了太多危险

少一物贪嗔痴会少一点

若是缘再苦味也是甜

若无缘藏爱在心田

尘世藕断还丝连

回首一瞬间

种颗善因陪你走好每一天

唯有心无挂碍成就大愿

唯有心无故妙不可言

算天算地算尽了从前

算不出生死会在哪一天

勿生恨点化虚空的眼

勿生怨欢喜不遥远

缠绕欲望的思念

善恶一瞬间

心怀忏悔陪你走好每一天

再牢的谎言

却逃不过天眼

明日之前心流离更远

浮云霎那间

障眼人心渐离间

集苦连连不断的出现

无量心生福报无极限

无极限生息息爱相连

凡人却视而不见

规矩定方圆

悟性悟觉悟空心甘情愿

简简单单陪你走好每一天

I like the song and the lyrics so much.......don't know how to upload song...next time upload haha^^

新少林寺

2011-02-23T08:36:00.000+08:00

刚刚听了新少林寺主题曲，看了这部电影，很开心也很感动。感动是因为歌里，戏里都有令人深思的话。最让我印象深刻的一句话：“ 我需明白，我需反思，我才能自在！”

明白什么？明白佛法教理，明白了也需反思，才能改变，才能自在。佛法要明白容易，但有多少人会反思自己，改变自己？这就让人深思了，很多人明白，但没有反思，所以佛法不能帮助他。佛法是生命，只要有反思，就有改变，有改变我们才能得自在。

记得戏中一句话：“ 邪生烦恼至，善生烦恼治”

佛法的大门永远为你而开，没有人能把它关起来，也关不住。

Accident

2011-02-16T08:20:00.000+08:00

Had accident last Sunday....well accident help me learn a lot where I see people of other races stand by to helped me, it make me really appreciate what they did....accident happened when my car moved even I pulled the handbrake....can't do anything about that....good thing is there are no injuries occured during the accident....that is the most important for me...I think is because the merit from learning from Dhamma....karma will never fail you....believe it....

Happy Chinese New Year!!!

2011-02-01T08:16:00.000+08:00

New year is coming....my heart is yearning for it, excitement came.....but new year always made me think of my past where I cried, played, mad, unhappy, happy...I have my family and my friends beside me....how lucky I am...if not for them I will never be who I am today....where will I be I never could have imagine...haha....well enjoy new year everyone....remember be happy always ya!!!

看戏

2011-02-01T08:11:00.000+08:00

我们和多时候都会觉得自己做得不够好，很想像别人一样那么有能力。我有时会有这样的想法，可是看了 “Chronicle of Narnia: Voyage of The Dawn Trader” 后，里面有一句话：“Don't ever doubt your value, don't run away from yourself!!” 这让我想，天生我才必有用，不相信自己就很难可以前进，进步。

除了这个，这部戏的确很好看，哈！！

Something to Read

2011-01-28T08:25:00.000+08:00

1、放下压力累与不累，取决于自己的心态心灵的房间，不打扫就会落满灰尘。蒙尘的心，会变得灰色和迷茫。我们每天都要经历很多事情，开心的，不开心的，都在心里安家落户。心里的事情一多，就会变得杂乱无序，然后心也跟着乱起来。有些痛苦的情绪和不愉快的记忆，如果充斥在心里，就会使人委靡不振。所以，扫地除尘，能够使黯然的心变得亮堂；把事情理清楚，才能告别烦乱；把一些无谓的痛苦扔掉，快乐就有了更多更大的空间。紧紧抓住不快乐的理由，无视快乐的理由，就是你总是觉得难受的原因了。

2、放下烦恼快乐其实很简单所谓练习微笑，不是机械地挪动你的面部表情，而是努力地改变你的心态，调节你的心情。学会平静地接受现实，学会对自己说声顺其自然，学会坦然地面对厄运，学会积极地看待人生，学会凡事都往好处想。这样，阳光就会流进心里来，驱走恐惧，驱走黑暗，驱走所有的阴霾。快乐其实很简单，不要自己不快乐就可以了。

3、放下自卑把自卑从你的字典里删去不是每个人都可以成为伟人，但每个人都可以成为内心强大的人。内心的强大，能够稀释一切痛苦和哀愁；内心的强大，能够有效弥补你外在的不足；内心的强大，能够让你无所畏惧地走在大路上，感到自己的思想，高过所有的建筑和山峰！相信自己，找准自己的位置，你同样可以拥有一个有价值的人生。

4、放下懒惰奋斗改变命运不要一味地羡慕人家的绝活与绝招，通过恒久的努力，你也完全可以拥有。因为，把一个简单的动作练到出神入化，就是绝招；把一件平凡的小事做到炉火纯青，就是绝活。提醒自己，记住自己的提醒，上进的你，快乐的你，健康的你，善良的你，一定会有一个灿烂的人生。

5、放下消极绝望向左，希望向右如果你想成为一个成功的人，那么，请为“最好的自己”加油吧，让积极打败消极，让高尚打败鄙陋，让真诚打败虚伪，让宽容打败褊狭，让快乐打败忧郁，让勤奋打败懒惰，让坚强打败脆弱，让伟大打败猥琐……只要你愿意，你完全可以一辈子都做最好的自己。没有谁能够左右胜负，除了你。自己的战争，你就是运筹帷幄的将军！不是所有的梦想都能成为美好的现实，但美丽的梦想同样可以装点出生活的美丽。

6、放下抱怨与其抱怨，不如努力所有的失败都是为成功做准备。抱怨和泄气，只能阻碍成功向自己走来的步伐。放下抱怨，心平气和地接受失败，无疑是智者的姿态。抱怨无法改变现状，拼搏才能带来希望。真的金子，只要自己不把自己埋没，只要一心想着闪光，就总有闪光的那一天。纵观古今中外，很多人生的奇迹，都是那些最初拿了一手坏牌的人创造的。不要总是烦恼生活。不要总以为生活辜负了你什么，其实，你跟别人拥有的一样多。

7、放下犹豫立即行动，成功无限认准了的事情，不要优柔寡断；选准了一个方向，就只管上路，不要回头。机遇就像闪电，只有快速果断才能将它捕获。立即行动是所有成功人士共同的特质。如果你有什么好的想法，那就立即行动吧；如果你遇到了一个好的机遇，那就立即抓住吧。立即行动，成功无限！有些人是必须忘记的，有些事是用来反省的，有些东西是不能不清理的。该放手时就放手，你才可以腾出手来，抓住原本属于你的快乐和幸福！有些事情是不能等待的，一时的犹豫，留下的将是永远的遗憾！

8、放下狭隘心宽，天地就宽宽容是一种美德。宽容别人，其实也是给自己的心灵让路。只有在宽容的世界里，人，才能奏出和谐的生命之歌！要想没有偏见，就要创造一个宽容的社会。要想根除偏见，就要首先根除狭隘的思想。只有远离偏见，才有人与内心的和谐，人与人的和谐，人与社会的和谐。我们不但要自己快乐，还要把自己的快乐分享给朋友、家人甚至素不相识的陌生人。因为分享快乐本身就是一种快乐，一种更高境界的快乐。宽容是一种美德。宽容别人，其实也是给自己的心灵让路。只有在宽容的世界里，人，才能奏出和谐的生命之歌！

Saw this when I swim through tons of blog....although I still can't do all of it bt it still good to remind one self to always be in happy state in heart and soul....also hope this can help my friends that are facing exam relax a bit....be happy haha^^

缘尽

2011-01-17T08:25:00.000+08:00

最近为买新车而高兴，但开心却没有能维持多久，因为我的电脑忽然去世了........啊啊啊啊.........发现没电脑生活多了时间不知怎么用.....现在只好拿别人的来用，哈哈！！开始时，好想哭呢，但是缘尽了还能怎么样？？

2010-12-27T08:33:00.000+08:00

最近发现凡事都有个尽头，不管都么希望他不会完结，但一切事一定会有走尽的一天的。看了一套戏，听到一句话很有意思，也告诉了我如何面对缘起缘灭的现象。

“花开总会花谢的，最重要是在花开的时候是开得多灿烂！”

一切多有尽头的一天，但重要是如何在拥有的时候珍惜，把一幅白画变成彩色缤纷，就算结束了也不会后悔。努力做个无悔的人生吧......

.........

2010-11-23T08:48:00.001+08:00

“洁癖就是帮助每个不洁的人, 使他洁净”

洁癖是不能忍受周围的不清洁，可是却往往忘记我们心中的不清洁也需要清理的。只让自己清净当然是不够的，还需帮助别人也清净，那就是修行。

写写与大家共勉之，别忘记了心中就是道场，修行时时刻刻存在于我们生活.......

Yeah!!!

2010-11-22T10:29:00.000+08:00

Yeah....I watched Harry Potter Deathly Hollows Part 1 dy....even earlier than my friend in UK haha^^ well the last episode seems to have much more action and conflicts compared to its previous episodes....the most suprising will be when the snake Nagiri suddenly appeared after being shoot down by curse...I get the shock alright....but what the heck...I get to laugh, supprised and suspence during the movie...that will be enough....hehe^^ There is one thing that touch my heart in the movie...and that is a friends trust....to earn it is no easy task where you have to know each other better...etc...after all this experience with a friend....I think it is appropriate not to hide anything in your heart...instead say it out....I am sure a real will accept and help you instead of leaving you....a friend of trust is always a friend indeed...don't be Ron on the movie where he kept his doubt about his friends in his heart until a certain point it exploded and only to regret it afterwards....so if you trust a friend...speaks it out...I am sure they can handle it since it is for benefits of all...don't let it explode...or you do something regretable.....well nice movie though...I am looking forward for the sequel next year....^^

Work!!

2010-11-18T10:12:00.002+08:00

Work work work.....sometimes really work until blur blur dy....don really know what am i doing....i miss my day at uni but it is already over T.T.....sometimes really think what i can do besides work work work....although can study dhamma or meditation myself, but without mitra i get so lazy...haha^^

退

2010-11-18T08:32:00.002+08:00

在 “佛教文摘”看到的：退也可以是进步！

退，对很多人来说都是退步，不积极，不进取，可是退有时可以风平浪静。退可让我们更冷静，更能解决问题。试想读书累了可以休息，但很多人认为停了就是浪费时间，是退步，可是适时退出 “前线”可以让我们休息已不能吸收的脑，可以冷静思考，所谓“休息是为了走更长远的路”。何况勇往直前更容易碰壁，让我们无法冷静......

在书中的智慧，启发了我，也拿来和各位共勉之......

2010-10-11T08:38:00.002+08:00

在 blog 里流浪时，看到这一句话，本来觉得没什么但想到 blog 没有更新，所以就来分享一下...hehe^^

"忏悔并不是后悔，而是负起责任，愿意去承担、改善"

所以后悔并不能改变，而是忏悔，愿意去行动，自己才能改变！拿来分享，让我们一起改变，提升，让生活更快乐，更自在吧！

感想

2010-08-23T08:24:00.003+08:00

佛学会有什么重要？这是在醒觉营中被学长问的问题。如果不重要，那为什么我会留在佛学会？很多学长也留下来，那又是为什么？我觉得答案可能看个人的想法，因为佛法好所以要学习吗？因为朋友？因为有学长的陪伴吗？可是朋友，学长并不能陪我们一生啊！佛法上的感动多多少少是有的，可是有去到内心吗？这是自己需要审查的。那么佛学会又有什么重要呢？对我来说，佛学会是一个能给我安心的地方，那边有朋友，法侣们会互相关心，互相照顾，一个让我轻松快乐的地方。佛学会没有建筑物或地方，而是一群为了学习生命的意义和真相的人在一起而已。这一群人是可以让我能分享开心与伤心，探讨我们学佛路上的酸甜苦辣，讨论生活，心事的朋友。那为什么现在会觉得佛学会不能给我这样的感觉呢？是否要检讨一下我自己？我只是希望佛学会的人不管会员也好，理事也好，都能拥有一颗单纯的心，有什么开心不开心，有什么心事就直接说呀！有那么难吗？为什么现在的人都不能这样？怕被人笑吗？我们都是半斤八两的嘛，何必怕呢？面子吗？大家都是朋友，有什么不能说的？为什么我可以与其他大专的朋友说心事而不能在自己佛学会里说呢？为什么其他大专能坦白告诉自己的心事而我们却不能呢？佛学会没有能让我真正轻松自在的讨论心事的朋友吗？有啊！那为什么我们不能和大家一起都探讨自己的心事呢？这是风气的问题还是人的问题？我们一直说其他大专凝聚力很强，我们没有这样的凝聚力，可是难道只是说说吗？只要大家都能踏出第一步，难道我们凝聚力会比他们差吗？我绝对相信我们也可以这样，只是看有没有人敢踏出那一步而已！我可以，可是你们能和我一起努力吗？相信可以的，发愿不要再让每年的问题再重复，不是没有解决方式，而是没有人愿意踏出那一步而已。我要改变，我相信会有人和我一样的，绝对相信佛学会不是素质低，让我们一起让学长们跌爆眼睛吧！！我们国能大学佛学会绝对有能力改变的！！！

情绪

2010-08-17T08:21:00.002+08:00

那天情绪爆炸了，因朋友一句话而爆炸了。可能在情绪管理上还不是很好，那天就这样失控了。然后选择了写来发泄，可是万想不到这样却伤害了他。知道这件事后，很后悔，很想当面说声：“对不起” 可是不知会否有这样的机会。可能我们以后很难再相遇，相聚，可是我还是很想保持这份友情，只是伤了的已不能回头了，后悔已来不及了。不知他会否再给我多一次机会，因为因一场误会而没有了我们之间的友情事都么可惜的事。现在我最想做的只有一个，说：“对不起”.....

对不起

2010-08-16T21:34:00.002+08:00

因我昨天情绪上有点波动，让我无法控制，说了一些让人伤害的话。昨天一场误会，仅然让我误会了他。今天在 FB上才让我了解他的真心，可是可能又是无可挽回的过错。我和他真的那么没有缘分？就因一场误会而没有了我们这几年的友情吗？我不知道，只知道现在很后悔说那些话。所以情绪管理和理智是很重要的，可能也是我还是一个人，一个无知的人.....所以现在最想说的是对不起！不管你有没有看到这个post 但我还是很珍惜我们这段友情.....不知还有没有这样的机会？就一个误会，一个post，一切都完了吗？

忘记

2010-08-04T14:03:00.002+08:00

为什么要忘记，但怎么也忘不了？？心中必须要忘记，只是怎么也忘不掉！放下真的那么难？我在执著着什么呢？唉.......是否珍惜当下才最重要呢？

〈〈爱，就要行动〉〉

2010-08-03T13:01:00.002+08:00

“ 自己创造自己的天堂，自己挖掘自己的地狱，自己改变自己的命运”

一念天堂，一念地狱，一切就在我们如何去选择我们的路。所以你会选择哪一个呢？

Small 启发!!!

2010-07-24T20:15:00.002+08:00

“ 经师易找，人师难求，教人读好书容易，教人做好人难 ”
（情越双白线第8集）

谢谢让我遇到UBF，遇到佛教，在这里找到良师益友，让我可以变成今天的我。没有他们，我可能已不是现在的我，感恩他们.......现在我也想报答他们，最好的报答就是帮助别人，成为别人的良师益友，让他们和我一样能遇到佛法，活得更快乐.....决不放弃，加油吧！

Life Long or Short Term??

2010-06-10T16:11:00.002+08:00

In camp, we usually met a lot of friends...we are very good friends during the camp...we share our stories, our experience in life n our ups n downs...but usually this type of hapiness do not last long...when we went our separate ways...when we are busy with our own life...did we still remember the friends that we made during the camp?? Or do we still keep in touch?? Or if we met again in the future, do we still can have conversation like last time???

Many friends that I made during camp are easily forgoten if we did not keep in touch...so how should we do about this?? Ya I know that this is impermenance....everything will come to an end someday...but for me...kalyana mitra is not just friends...they are my family...so I have this thought...will the friends I make during my Uni life maintain our relationship or do we met in the future n be like stranger???

The future is always unpredictable...how will my road be??? Will I make it by myself??? I don't think so...I still need friends to surport each other on this road to Buddhahood....friends is always an important factor in my life...of course I will make new friends in life but I will make myself never to forget the friends I made in my life so far...I don't know how much I can do...but I will try my best to keep the light of friendship in each of everyone heart...I hope we don't forget the light we planted some time ago in past...sincerely wish that we will meet again someday, somewhere, sometime...^^

"Althought we don't meet in person, but the light in our heart will always shine!!"

Little Sharing^^

2010-06-10T15:57:00.002+08:00

I am now working dy....everyday work I easily let my heart wander off...easy to be driven by my own hatred,greed n ignorance...but then I remember what Rev. Ji Cheng say about "Zen" where Zen means the wisdom in life...meditation is a method to help us to control our heart...but meditation should not be abondoned in the meditation room only...but everywhere, where ever I am...still or moving...what ever I do...is a chance for me to practice my heart...that is the true meaning of "Zen"...wisdom is always within us...it just that we are easily driven by own emotion that we forget our wisdom in our heart...so remember to accept everything as it is...never forget of your own wisdom in your heart...^^

面具

2010-04-03T15:18:00.002+08:00

看到了他的blog，说他没有知心朋友....他让我知道每个人都会有用面具来面对生活.....我也不例外。戴面具示人....有很多原因....保护自己，保护他人，建立信心......我自己自问在一些人面前也会有面具的，因为不想让别人不舒服....所以找到能让我做回自己的朋友，我都很珍惜的....可是他，曾经认为他是能和我交心的朋友....当初的他，单纯，交心....我永远记得我们那天交心的情景.....因为那天我们才变成好朋友的....可是他开始改变了，变得我也不认识....这才是真正的他，还是带着面具的他? 我不知道....真的不知道....我想和他成知心朋友，可是他的改变让我觉得我的梦好远，好远....当然我明白不能要求他变成我心中所想，我只能说我不能，也没资格成为你的知心朋友....不过不管未来怎么样，我还是依然默默的祝福你....可惜我还是偶尔会想起那天你和我交心，畅谈的情景.....那天会永远活在我心里面....就算你不知道也好....请记得这里还有一个等着你的人！！

到底要怎样？

2010-02-05T01:21:00.002+08:00

佛学会是我成长，教我快乐，慈悲的地方....可是看着佛学会一点一点的走下坡，心中好痛啊！很想帮助佛学会提起来，可是却不知如何开始......我不想被人说我在搞问题，也不想给我的学弟压力....说了我的感想就会引起这种问题，所以我不敢说......到底要如何做才能帮助佛学会？？

唉.....智慧不足，能力也不足，可以如何才能帮助佛学会？？真的是如印顺导师说的：“耻有所不知，耻有所不能，耻有所不净 ” 惭愧自己不够智慧，也能力有限，性格也不是很有影响力，所以才不知要怎么开始....万事起头难，只要找到方式开始，相信就能突破今天的局面.....

如果佛学会就这样倒了，Uniten 就会失去一个让大专生学习佛法的平台，就会很多人没有了这个机会听闻佛法，从而让自己过得更快乐....所以为了让佛学会能够延续下去，佛法能够帮助更多的人。“不忍众生苦，不忍圣教衰 ”
发愿吧！！愿佛学会能够延续下去，让更多人离苦得乐....sadhu sadhu sadhu!!!

Pusat Jagaan Beribuan Kasih^^

2009-12-26T02:11:00.002+08:00

On Christmas night we go to the Pusat Jagaan Beribuan Kasih in Kajang...it is a care center for anyone that was abandoned or simply no where to go, from old to young....UBF is planning to have a special christmas with this bunch of people....of course first I was scared to approach them...but then what the hell, just do it hehe^^

Thanks to the bunch of friendly kids that make me feel accepted there, I was their friend and they are mine....I met a girl named Nicole...she was only 15 when she was put there a few weeks ago by her parent...but I found that she never hated her life or blaming everything or think the world is no good, instead she have a dream...a dream of becoming a cook...she a special cook with creative talent...she can make a meat ball using small piece of meat, bread n milk(brilliant n creative....I hope i can learn her cooking)....she told me a lot of story that most people here experienced brutality and harshness of life...well long story so no need say too much(I also very lazy hehe^^)

There are one moment where she wrote her thank you notes to Sean(I happen to peep haha)....she wrote:" Thank you for giving this poor kids a very happy christmas and thank you for making me happy for the day." I was so touched by her words....i am speechless....I understand that they don't need our money donation or sponsor...instead what they truly need is our love, our care n our encouragement...it is truly simple but most of us will always forget that...what they desire is not all those paper given by people to them but instead their connection to society...that their heart desire....I will never forget tonight where Nicole n all the kids and old folks there have lighten my heart...my fire for compasion....nobody is born good or bad, it is just who u choose to be....

I will always remember the moment where I passed the christmas present to a little kid of 7 years old...he was closing his eyes...but when I touched n presented the present to him...I make a connection...he look me straight into my eyes n say:"Merry Christmas!" I was so touched that I hug him and say Merry Christmas to him....in my heart I was wishing all of them at the center to be happy always n to have their dreams come true....if I ever have chance to go there again...no matter UBF activity, my own accord, friends activities, my transport....whatever the reason I will revisit there whenever I have the chance...because I will never forget the place that lit up my heart....thank you so much...Pusat Jagaan Beribuan Kasih!!!

I will come back n I will try my best to lit up other people heart just like how u lit up heart....let us do this together n in the end we will light up the world!!!!

Together

2009-12-06T11:17:00.002+08:00

"When we are together, we are family"

I like this statement from movie 2012 so much....when we are together, we are one big family no matter who are with....family, friends, organization, etc...so we should all just appreciate the time that we will spend with one another before it gone....enjoy every moment with family n friends...u never know when is the last time we are together....so cherish what u have n enjoy your life...^^

认识自己

2009-11-27T16:33:00.002+08:00

你是谁？我不知道要如何答这个问题...发现我们所认识的自己都不是真正的自己，只是朋友告诉我们的自己，可是我很多时候都是会把最好的一面表现在大家面前而把不好的一面盖起来...可是学佛却要认识真正的自己...有多少人能够接受自己是一个不完美的人，我也不是一个很完美的人，我也有我的弱点，我的习惯，我不好的一面，不好的想法...
通明师父说：“只要认识到自己，就必须要接受自己是一个这样的人，只有接受才会改变！”

所以一定要认识自己，接受，改变，然后放下....学佛就是要我们变成一个更好更快乐的人，就佛陀一样....佛法其实不难，因为它就是生活嘛！！可是我们毕竟是一个凡人，也会有陷入困难或难关的，我们有我们的执著，所以法侣是一个帮助我们度过难关，帮我们变成好的人...可以完全接受我们，真心诚意帮助我们的人....然后当我们成功改变自己的时候，就是我们去帮助别人的时候了！

一个朋友说过：“只有先把自己心中的那盏灯照亮，才能照亮别人心中的那盏灯！”

只有帮助自己的人，才能够帮助别人....可是不要小看别人给你的小小的灯，因为那都是给我们力量去面对与成长的最重要的....所以请打开我们的心房，让别人的灯光可以照亮我们的心，而我们也把最真诚的心来照亮别人的心房！！

这是我在刚刚结束的年度生活营所启发到的一些小小分享，愿这个分享能够延续大家心中的那盏灯，那盏可以照亮一切的灯！

Hoeh Beng Temple Trip

2009-10-03T18:03:00.002+08:00

Today I went to Hoeh Beng Temple with UBF to visit Reverend Chuan Wen...the trip is very inspiring for me...the reverend share that learning Buddhism is not only practice by ourself but it is best to practice it in people...we will never learn of our strength and weakness if we did not interact with people...I found that it is very true...I learn a lot when I was interacting with groups...only by interaction that I was be able to learn that I still have a lot of problems and habits that should be change...for example I learn that I will be unhappy or sometime angry when others cannot achieve what I anticipated...I tend blame others for their imcopetance or weakness but I forget that the one that have problem is me...and me alone...only through interaction with people that I understand I am not so perfect as my heart will go up and down when interacting with outside world...its good that we have iniative to learn Buddhism by ourself...but it also important to go outside to meet people....it not only can it helps you to realise your strenght and weakness...but also present a chance for sharing of Dhamma to others...only through people that we will able to help others...to share and help whenever needed...also it give us opportunity to train our heart...just like Reverend said before:" Only through interaction with people that we will be able to practice and train our heart to be more and more like Buddha."

So enjoy interaction with people....share whatever you can...give a helping hand whenever the chances appear to you...train your heart and learn to change your habits....only through this that we can be closer to the Buddha....go down the path of a boddhisatta...you will never regret it....I know I won't regret whenever I can share Dhamma or my experience and give a helping hand to others....I know that I still lacks a lots compared to the Buddha...so lets us walk this road together kalyana mitra...let us learn and grow together!!! ^^

Why???

2009-09-23T10:11:00.002+08:00

Why everyone has different thought n opinion?? Why they never listen to others?? Why they have to force their thoughts against other?? Why?? Why? Why?

Most importantly why the Dhamma is not hard to understand by others, but few are able to practice it?? Is it so hard?? Would that means that Dhamma had not gone into ur heart?? I noe most of us has great understanding of Dhamma but is it so hard to practice it in our daily life??

Wahaha....I summarize all my fustration n question in my mind into simple words....I think most people will not understand(not so good in writing)....haha..^^

PS: Sorry Raymond, another post that u won't understand again...hehe^^

一时的感动！

2009-09-14T23:28:00.002+08:00

今天的静坐班有点不一样，分享了学长格成的一篇文章，写了他从中学到他遇到佛学会的一些经历....心中对这篇文章有一点的感触....它让我想起了以前第一次接触佛学会的感觉....该谢谢我的一个学长 Kim Wee 给了我一个机会去接触佛学会....当时一踏出房门决定没想到就将会改写我在Uniten的一生.....当时只是单纯的就去了佛学班...当时那里我没有朋友，可是个个像认识的，搞到我不敢做什么，那时Jeffrey就来和我聊天，让我不会在那里呆呆的^^ 接着看到传芳一进来就拜佛，那时只是看着他，不敢问他在做什么....那时就是那么的单纯，对每一件事都感到很新鲜，想知道这，向学习那，就是什么都想要知道.....那天佛学班就只记得一句话：“学佛就是要让我们的生活变得更快乐！” 我就已经认定这就是我要的，我要知道佛教是什么？什么才能快乐？那天就因为我的一个决定让我在佛学会里一直呆下去的动力....^^

今天晚上让我再想起了我当初为什么要学佛....很多时候我们都会因为做多了，懂多了，就会忘记了当初的一颗单纯的心....所以才会没有了动力，没有了感动.....可能最重要的是还是一颗心，心麻木了就会没有了动力，也很难感动了，所以最重要的记得我们当初学佛的心呀！！想想自己也在这个道路上走了蛮长一段时间，从一直不断学习到付出做理事到现在退休变普通会员（hehe^^) 心里的成长也一直改变，从想知道更多到学习付出到现在想要帮助别人...其实现在才知道想帮助别人是很有挑战性的，分享就变成很重要了，可是虽然能够随时随机分享及布施，但是还是不能在大众面前分享....害怕吧....怕误导大众也怕自己没有这个能力....看来我还需多多努力呢！！

Haiz.....

2009-09-13T20:32:00.002+08:00

不知怎么越看就越不高兴.....可能以为心中是放下了....但其实还是很在意的.....知道自己不应有这么样的想法，也知道该把它放下.....可是就是不能....haiz....人的心就是那么的难以控制，以为自己已能够放下了，但事实证明我还差得很远呢！！嘴里说没关系，但心里却不是这样想，心中还是很放不下呀！

2009-08-28T00:17:00.002+08:00

Just now I just read about a meaningful story....quoted from yee mun blog....ah sum i know u wont angry bout sharing this story in my blog de....hehe^^

Once upon a time there was this girl who had four boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adorned him with rich robes and treated him to the finest ofdelicacies. She gave him nothing but the very best.

She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.

She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him!

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone."

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, "I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"

"No way!", replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without another word.

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, "I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"

"No!", replied the 3rd boyfriend. "Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!"

Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, "I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?"

"I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!", replied the 2nd boyfriend. "At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave."

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated..

Then a voice called out: "I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go.."

The girl looked up, and there was her first boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, "I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!"

In truth, you have 4 boyfriend's in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.

Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth. When you die, it will all go to others.

Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.

And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you to the throne of God and continue with you throughout Eternity.

Most of us is just like in the story...we all care for ourselves the most...we wanted to look pretty in front of people, close our weakness and show our nice and cool self up...just like with the 4th boyfriend....of course then our most valuable stuff...money, laptop, hand phone...etc....like the third boyfriend....then the most that we interacted is often our family and friends....the one closest to us.... they bring joy and sorrow to us in our everyday life....they let us feel warm but sometime feel cold.....that is the excitement of life....it can be unpredictable and it usually wont go our way....but always we neglected our soul.....our heart and mind....we often find sensual pleasure to filled our heart and mind but often forget to purify our mind....juz like yee mun say:"only the soul follow us when we die, so what are u doing now??? step up and pray now!!"

well in buddhism we should know that nothing can follow us to death except for what we done in the past that determine how we are going to be in the future.....so juz like my friend yee mun say step up and do it NOW!!! no more next time as we all don know if we can live through today....so just help anyone or anything when u have the chance....don hesistate....do it NOW before it is too late....don worry coz we are learning....so let us learn together and spread the joy and happiness of the dhamma around......do our best and believe that u will be rewarded....^^

等

2009-08-25T18:24:00.002+08:00

很久没有等人的感觉了.....等的时候可以让自己静下来，可以让心变平静....今天刚好有这个机会....平时生活都是忙忙碌碌的过.....心没有几何可以停下来的，天天都有东西在想，在忙，assignment 还没交，lab report还没打，test还没读，还要开会，还要做project....就连睡觉时都没有停止过......从早到晚都很难有一刻宁静.....甚至在等人的时候都会争取时间，读书呀，做功课呀......大多数的人就这样过他们的一生.....忙碌的一生.....心几乎都没有停止过....很多东西挂碍，不能放下....很难专注于现在所要做的事.....所以让心有一刻宁静是很重要的，至少有一小段时间可以放松，可以停下来观察自己和周围，往往会发现一些以前所忽略或很少注意到的东西....加油吧！！让心能有机会宁静.....慢慢看到我所忽略过的一切.......努力^^
这是今天在等人的时候的一个小小启示，愿与大家分享，一起加油努力吧！！hehe^^

Memorable Moment

2009-08-16T12:53:00.010+08:00

Last week I experienced something special. I follow my nice housemate to fetch reverand to Serdang and Carol and Yen Xin back to Cheras....after putting reverand at UPM buddhist house in Serdang.....we went to play on the playground opposite the buddhist house under the urge from Kheng Hiong....at first we are very happy to play and to relive our youthful moment that we forgoten so long ago....at least I am....^^

Yeah!!!

see how happy we are^^

even cheok ee cant wait to play^^

Although this is a special experience....but because of human ignorance....the happy moment became tragedy......watch...

It become a full wave photographing war....haiz....sorry cheok ee....cant help u though....it then turn into handphone snatching event when we at kheng hiong car.....haiz....:(

Thing turn out like this but anyway this is a memorable moment for me and I hope all of u are too.....well they r my friends.....this is why I choose to learn Buddhism....because I get to meet a lot of friends wit different different personality.....a bit sort sort and playful sometime....but they r good friends nonetheless.....supportive and caring.....they always inspire me whenever i least expected it....thank you my kalyana mitra...^^

心声

2009-08-07T10:11:00.002+08:00

想当带动员一次，一次也好我也满足了...可是往往事与愿反，到现在还是无法如愿...有时不经义会想，我是不是没有资格或能力承担带动员，我不知道....我不敢将我的这个小小心声告诉任何人，因为我知道他们一定会说安慰和鼓励的话，所以我真的不敢说出来...haiz...这样是不是变得好像违反佛陀的教法吧，因为一直想做带动员，心中是不是起了烦恼了....可是我心中好想喔，一次也好...不过也可能没有机会了...可能自己没有这个能耐所以才会没有人选做带动员，我也知道自己不够能力去教导别人，误人误己就不好咯...但是想到以前被学长启发，自己也希望能够帮助其他人...是不是自己想太多了....人心真的好复杂喔！！！

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2009-08-06T22:49:00.003+08:00

最近有位朋友一直找我谈他和她的故事...当然很开心他那么的相信我...愿意听我给他的建议....hehe...可是我已很久没有他的这种感觉了....自从我和她的故事没有结果以后，法侣们叫我别等了，找新的吧...可是自从她以后，很少再有人是让我心动了...所以我有时和他分享时，心中都想再一次有和他一样的感觉....不知我能不能再一次的心动呢？

Shocking!!!

2009-08-04T00:59:00.003+08:00

The news come to me so sudden it like a shock to me...although I din hang out wit u much...but thanks for being my fren....today is a big shock to me n everybody...the usual laughter n chatting have been replaced by our sadness....life is so unpredictable....once u think u r alright but another moment u r gone forever...this is life where we will never know when death will strike us....it accompany us everyday...every moment....until it strike with the moment u least expected....so r we ready??? Are me ready??? So we have to cherish everyone we have by our side right...cherish every moment with them....as u will never know when death is here for u or ur fren....but at least my fren will b living in my heart forever....

I will share this merits that I acquired during meditation with u my fren Gary....wish u will be happy n free of suffering....

U always a good fren to me....I will cherish ur memory in my heart always....thank you for being my fren....

RIP Gary....u will always live in our heart forever...!!!

播种的人

2009-08-01T15:46:00.002+08:00

Last week dhamma class is very interesting....although the story of the Buddha I already hear for the past three years dy....know most the story....then Bro.Yik Hwa introduce us a few song during hymns sharing section....one particular song really make me wonder...the song is "播种的人" lyric by Bro.Chuan Fang....most of us have benefited from our senior when we are a fresh junior in university....they help, nurture and make us grow up....well thanks to them I am what I am now...although many people did not see it...but I know I have change a lot during my time at UBF...thanks to their effort to put a seed in me(haha the sentences like something wrong...but the meaning is there^^) now I feel that I should be the one that inherit what my senior had done in the past for me...I will become the one that will plant seed into every one heart....although it is difficult...but it is meaningful and this is what I can do to repay their guidance and effort towards me.....gambateh neh!!!

真的是这样吗？？

2009-07-17T12:15:00.004+08:00

习惯真的那么难改吗？最近看到的都是习惯....说了也没用...习惯还是死性不改....造成了很多人麻烦。学佛的不是说不要造成别人的麻烦，别人的嗔心吗？那为什么说了也等于白说，听也没有到心里去...看到这样的人不知该如何是好...haiz...自己的能力还是那么有限...不过在我看来习惯不是不能改，只是视乎你有没有去了解自己的问题，去下决心去改，习惯一定能改的，这是我一直以来的信念。忠言逆耳，只是要知道别人不是想说你而是想你变得更好，一定是自己有问题别人才会说你的，所以不介意别人所说，但一定要去审查自己，只有自己认定有问题才会有能力去改....说别人我也有很多习惯需要去改...只是最近又一个活生生的例子在我眼前而已....就像想要告诉我一定要改掉自己的不好习惯...一定能....让我们一起加油吧！！！:)

Just Thinking!!!

2009-06-24T18:23:00.002+08:00

Lately something happened to my sister that make me thinking...She gt an industrial training that suppose to last for 3 months....but the company gt bankrupt n she was jobless...so I think that our life will not always b a smooth road ahead...there will b thorn along the way...so what should we do when it happen to us...blame it all on bad karma???? I don't think so....but yes our yesterday choice has taken its consequences today...i think the most important thing is what we do today to change our life...this is also a choice today that we must take right??? Heard a friend sad once:" What we do yesterday is what make us today...but what we do today is what make us tomorrow!!" So the most important thing is what u do today...oso our attitude towards the situation can affect the choices that we will make...well different people has different attitude though...so just think carefully which attitude u wan to face the difficulty in life...if u choose correctly...then ur life will not be so suffering ler...so choose wisely....hehe....^^

Sienz~~

2009-04-12T11:59:00.002+08:00

经过了一星期的 "Industrial Training" 以后，所得的只有 "sien" 这个字眼可以形容。所做的都是一些不知目的，没有目标的工作，所以不知自己为什么要这么做。在我最迷惘的时候，我的经理却和我说了一句话，让我对工作有新的看法，他说：“做工不是只是守着自己的岗位，要学东西就要多积极的去和其他同事学。” 他的简单一句话让我这个迷路羔羊得到了一盏明灯一样照亮了我那时迷惑的心，真是太感谢我拥有一群很好的同事。他让我明白到世界是很现实的，你要什么都需要自己积极的去做，去问人才能够学到东西的。当然生活也是如此，很多人都只是知道守在自己的生活世界里面，却很少会去理会别人的生活的，可是这样我们就只能被绑在自己的世界里面，而忽略了很多学习的机会，这岂不是很可惜吗？只要我们能够踏出第一步，能帮忙的就帮忙，过程中我们不是都可以学到很多宝贵的经验吗？只有我们拥有这一份帮助别人的心意，我们永远都会很开心的过日子的。所以将我们的心打开，主动站出来，你会看到不一样的世界在等着你的！！让我们一起加油，一起把欢乐带给别人的世界里面去吧！！！^^

Time Of Sorrow? Time Of Joy?

2009-03-31T10:41:00.000+08:00

Each time I think that the UCSI friends will leave on September....a kind of sadness filled my heart....but what will my reaction be when the time of real separation? Will I be cool? Will I cry? Will I do something stupid(hehe^^)? I don't know what will be when the time come....hope it never come....i need to to face it sooner or later....
But anyway, like my good friend Mr.Senz say:" Why think of the future when u have now?" I truly touched by his words....yes we will feel sad when our friends leave us eventually....but why think of the future that haven't come yet, but instead it make me appreciate the time I spend with them more....it just like each time I see them will always be the last time that I will see them...so I truly cherish the moment that I share with them now....laugh with them....play with them....chat with them....this is the moment that I will cherish forever in my heart....just like what the reverand said cherish the present moment....why think of the future when I still have NOW!!!!
Although they may change after the four years at UK....but I truly believe that our bonding through the Dhamma will never change....so 祝你们一路顺风，请相信自己所选择的路，加油吧!!!
So don't feel sad...lets cherish the time we have NOW!!!!
And for the future 请相信我们会有相逢的一天的!!!!!
So enjoy NOW and strive for the future....for the day we will gather once again!!
This is what I truly believe deep in my heart...always....always....

So enjoy NOW and strive for the future....for the day that we will gather again..!!!!

This is what I truly believe in my heart....always...always...

Cyber Heart

R.I.P

Change

希求，向往

Different

Change

Sharing^^

世界上没有偶然

负担

刘德华 - 悟

新少林寺

Accident

Happy Chinese New Year!!!

看戏

Something to Read

缘尽

.........

Yeah!!!

Work!!

退

分享

感想

情绪

对不起

忘记

〈〈爱，就要行动〉〉

Small 启发!!!

Life Long or Short Term??

Little Sharing^^

面具

到底要怎样？

Pusat Jagaan Beribuan Kasih^^

Together

认识自己

Hoeh Beng Temple Trip

Why???

一时的感动！

Haiz.....

Share

等

Memorable Moment

心声

...........

Shocking!!!

播种的人

真的是这样吗？？

Just Thinking!!!

Sienz~~

Time Of Sorrow? Time Of Joy?