R.I.P

Death come out of no where and suddenly...my friend lost his brother and father in one week time...I don't know how to console my friend....what I can do it pray that the deceased will reborn in a happy realm...free from suffering....and also wish that my friend will step out of sadness and move on...because the deceased will always want you to be happy and free of suffering....so let us transfer our merits to the deceased to help them free from suffering in the future...sadhu sadhu sadhu!!

Change

What you think will become your action,
What you do will become your habit,
Your habit shaped your destiny!!

Most people know this but they refuse and scare of change...they forget what we do today shape our future...want good future...change what is not good just like cleaning your room....clean your mind...just like the Buddha say "purify your mind"

天堂地狱不在未来，天堂地狱就在现在！
善恶一念间，一念天堂，一念地狱!

http://www.justbegood.net/index.htm

A website to learn more about Buddhism and meditation...it provide explanation,power point,picture,dhamma talks mp3,songs,....etc....go and try it for yourself...ehipasiko ma^^

犹豫，就会错过很多！

心动，就要行动！

曾经的心动，带给别人，也给自己新的心动.....

"PBUPM 45th Anniversary 心曲 "

希求，向往

有机会在马大佛友之家“华雨学苑”住了两天，他们给我的感觉就是“温暖”，让我有股冲动想住在那里。华雨学苑的住客所表现的都是我心中对佛友之家的向往和希望，只是我在UBF佛友之家没有这份温暖而已。当然，学长的家也会有这份温暖，但每次相处都会觉得自己是局外人，好像不被需要一样。我也想和学长谈笑生风，可以和他们分享快乐伤心，但......我真的不知道该如何呢！我也很想说国能大学佛学联谊会是我想回去的家，但是却不敢面对学长（不知道为何）
每次看到学长和junior或外校生都能有说有笑，他们做一些事都会称赞一下，我可是四年都很少听到称赞，有的只是不满和怪责。有时我会想，我真的一个地方都没有可以称赞的吗？那么差吗？虽然有时觉得这想法不应该，但心里真的很想和学长谈笑生风，享受那份温暖，虽然好像很执著，但那也是我心里的希求和向往。不知师父知道了会不会“shoot”我？哈哈！！　

Strong person will take strength for granted and may misused it;
Weak person knows the value of strength;

Quoted from "Captain America: The First Avenger" 

Different

I watched Rise Of The Planet Of The Apes last week...it a movie with lots of action and emotion...it just a monkey try to adapt to society...where difference is feared...he learned how people treat difference in the hard way...I can felt his anger...his despair...his fear...where he decided to revolt and take his kind to paradise where he call "home"....

Although this is about human and animal...but we all try to adapt to society...well I am....sometime we feel alone and deserted within friends...like we are different...yeah...we can laugh and play and cry together but in the end we just can't blend in...I don't know about you...but I do feel different sometimes...

I want to be like him...talkative and popular...everybody likes him....but if you think deeper...I want to be like you and you want to be like me...even if it is true...we won't be satisfied...our desire is limitless...in the end we want more...more...and more...so STOP it....accept that we are unique...adapt to life by finding our own inner peace....purify our thoughts and action....create our own paradise in heart....and one day we will be like the Buddha....peaceful and free!!!

Change

Change...we wanted to change but our heart don't want to change...change sometimes is painful and hard...but change brings more things to me to help me learn and improve...we say we wanted to be as good as the Buddha but why now we still have to endure suffering and all the attachment in our heart...because we never change ourselves...never wanted to change for the better...to be more like the Buddha...change is painful and hard but it brings more than we can ever imagine...change help us learn and improve to be a better person...remember change our ways of thinking and we can change the world...with a little determination and wisdom.....^^

Sharing^^

" Reality is prison. The mind can set you free! "

Interesting quote from the movie Sucker Punch. It makes one think.....we always swing between happy and unhappy states of mind....always fighting hard to be happy.....is that a prison in one sense?? The mind always change but we can control it through practice.....there once a man say the mind creativity knows no boundary....it can connect to anyway, anytime and any place in just instant.....Venerable Ajahn Chah say:" Happy and unhappy is just in the mind and not the people or things around us." This say once more the mind is the reason we swing through happy and unhappy....but with practice and faith to the Dhamma, our mind can set us free....!!!

世界上没有偶然

世界上没有偶然，有的只是必然。

必然是要靠自己创造的．不去试一试．怎么知道什么才是真正的“必然”呢？

别说自己命运是命中注定了，不努力怎么知道结果？

负担

“你思想负担太重了，把握住这一刻，那下一刻就会好起来的！”

在小说中看到有趣的一句话......我们很容易把很多东西都放在脑里，不管是开心不开心，或愁或忧或喜或仇, 把什么都放进脑里面.....我们一直想着以前，想着未来，从来没有专注现在应该做的事情，所以才会说很多东西做，时间不够用的埋怨......我们很少能放下，只是专注于现在，放下以前，放下未来.....因为以前已过去了，不能再改变.....未来还没有发生，想来也没有用，而且希望越大，失望越大，因为未来的形成是现在行动影响才会发生的.....放下不必要的想法，抛开所有负担，别再给自己压力了，只要能专注于现在，努力做好自己，未来的路一定会为我而开.......

刘德华 - 悟

悟

演唱:刘德华
作词:刘德华
作曲:赵钦

无量心生福报无极限

无极限生息息爱相连

为何君视而不见

规矩定方圆

悟性悟觉悟空心甘情愿



放下颠倒梦想放下云烟

放下空欲色放下悬念

多一物却添了太多危险

少一物贪嗔痴会少一点



若是缘再苦味也是甜

若无缘藏爱在心田

尘世藕断还丝连

回首一瞬间

种颗善因陪你走好每一天



唯有心无挂碍成就大愿

唯有心无故妙不可言

算天算地算尽了从前

算不出生死会在哪一天



勿生恨点化虚空的眼

勿生怨欢喜不遥远

缠绕欲望的思念

善恶一瞬间

心怀忏悔陪你走好每一天



再牢的谎言

却逃不过天眼

明日之前心流离更远

浮云霎那间

障眼人心渐离间

集苦连连不断的出现



无量心生福报无极限

无极限生息息爱相连

凡人却视而不见

规矩定方圆

悟性悟觉悟空心甘情愿

简简单单陪你走好每一天

I like the song and the lyrics so much.......don't know how to upload song...next time upload haha^^

新少林寺

刚刚听了新少林寺主题曲，看了这部电影，很开心也很感动。感动是因为歌里，戏里都有令人深思的话。 最让我印象深刻的一句话：“ 我需明白，我需反思，我才能自在！”

明白什么？明白佛法教理，明白了也需反思，才能改变，才能自在。佛法要明白容易，但有多少人会反思自己，改变自己？这就让人深思了，很多人明白，但没有反思，所以佛法不能帮助他。佛法是生命，只要有反思，就有改变，有改变我们才能得自在。

记得戏中一句话：“ 邪生烦恼至，善生烦恼治”

佛法的大门永远为你而开，没有人能把它关起来，也关不住。

Accident

Had accident last Sunday....well accident help me learn a lot where I see people of other races stand by to helped me, it make me really appreciate what they did....accident happened when my car moved even I pulled the handbrake....can't do anything about that....good thing is there are no injuries occured during the accident....that is the most important for me...I think is because the merit from learning from Dhamma....karma will never fail you....believe it....

Happy Chinese New Year!!!

New year is coming....my heart is yearning for it, excitement came.....but new year always made me think of my past where I cried, played, mad, unhappy, happy...I have my family and my friends beside me....how lucky I am...if not for them I will never be who I am today....where will I be I never could have imagine...haha....well enjoy new year everyone....remember be happy always ya!!!

看戏

我们和多时候都会觉得自己做得不够好，很想像别人一样那么有能力。我有时会有这样的想法，可是看了 “Chronicle of Narnia: Voyage of The Dawn Trader” 后，里面有一句话：“Don't ever doubt your value, don't run away from yourself!!” 这让我想，天生我才必有用，不相信自己就很难可以前进，进步。

除了这个，这部戏的确很好看，哈！！

Something to Read

1、放下压力 累与不累，取决于自己的心态 心灵的房间，不打扫就会落满灰尘。蒙尘的心，会变得灰色和迷茫。我们每天都要经历很多事情，开心的，不开心的，都在心里安家落户。心里的事情一多，就会变得杂乱无序，然后心也跟着乱起来。有些痛苦的情绪和不愉快的记忆，如果充斥在心里，就会使人委靡不振。所以，扫地除尘，能够使黯然的心变得亮堂；把事情理清楚，才能告别烦乱；把一些无谓的痛苦扔掉，快乐就有了更多更大的空间。 紧紧抓住不快乐的理由，无视快乐的理由，就是你总是觉得难受的原因了。


2、放下烦恼 快乐其实很简单 所谓练习微笑，不是机械地挪动你的面部表情，而是努力地改变你的心态，调节你的心情。学会平静地接受现实，学会对自己说声顺其自然，学会坦然地面对厄运，学会积极地看待人生，学会凡事都往好处想。这样，阳光就会流进心里来，驱走恐惧，驱走黑暗，驱走所有的阴霾。 快乐其实很简单，不要自己不快乐就可以了。


3、放下自卑 把自卑从你的字典里删去 不是每个人都可以成为伟人，但每个人都可以成为内心强大的人。内心的强大，能够稀释一切痛苦和哀愁；内心的强大，能够有效弥补你外在的不足；内心的强大，能够让你无所畏惧地走在大路上，感到自己的思想，高过所有的建筑和山峰！ 相信自己，找准自己的位置，你同样可以拥有一个有价值的人生。


4、放下懒惰 奋斗改变命运 不要一味地羡慕人家的绝活与绝招，通过恒久的努力，你也完全可以拥有。因为，把一个简单的动作练到出神入化，就是绝招；把一件平凡的小事做到炉火纯青，就是绝活。 提醒自己，记住自己的提醒，上进的你，快乐的你，健康的你，善良的你，一定会有一个灿烂的人生。


5、放下消极 绝望向左，希望向右 如果你想成为一个成功的人，那么，请为“最好的自己”加油吧，让积极打败消极，让高尚打败鄙陋，让真诚打败虚伪，让宽容打败褊狭，让快乐打败忧郁，让勤奋打败懒惰，让坚强打败脆弱，让伟大打败猥琐……只要你愿意，你完全可以一辈子都做最好的自己。 没有谁能够左右胜负，除了你。自己的战争，你就是运筹帷幄的将军！ 不是所有的梦想都能成为美好的现实，但美丽的梦想同样可以装点出生活的美丽。


6、放下抱怨 与其抱怨，不如努力 所有的失败都是为成功做准备。抱怨和泄气，只能阻碍成功向自己走来的步伐。放下抱怨，心平气和地接受失败，无疑是智者的姿态。 抱怨无法改变现状，拼搏才能带来希望。真的金子，只要自己不把自己埋没，只要一心想着闪光，就总有闪光的那一天。 纵观古今中外，很多人生的奇迹，都是那些最初拿了一手坏牌的人创造的。 不要总是烦恼生活。不要总以为生活辜负了你什么，其实，你跟别人拥有的一样多。


7、放下犹豫 立即行动，成功无限 认准了的事情，不要优柔寡断；选准了一个方向，就只管上路，不要回头。机遇就像闪电，只有快速果断才能将它捕获。 立即行动是所有成功人士共同的特质。如果你有什么好的想法，那就立即行动吧；如果你遇到了一个好的机遇，那就立即抓住吧。立即行动，成功无限！ 有些人是必须忘记的，有些事是用来反省的，有些东西是不能不清理的。该放手时就放手，你才可以腾出手来，抓住原本属于你的快乐和幸福！ 有些事情是不能等待的，一时的犹豫，留下的将是永远的遗憾！


8、放下狭隘 心宽，天地就宽 宽容是一种美德。宽容别人，其实也是给自己的心灵让路。只有在宽容的世界里，人，才能奏出和谐的生命之歌！ 要想没有偏见，就要创造一个宽容的社会。要想根除偏见，就要首先根除狭隘的思想。只有远离偏见，才有人与内心的和谐，人与人的和谐，人与社会的和谐。 我们不但要自己快乐，还要把自己的快乐分享给朋友、家人甚至素不相识的陌生人。因为分享快乐本身就是一种快乐，一种更高境界的快乐。 宽容是一种美德。宽容别人，其实也是给自己的心灵让路。只有在宽容的世界里，人，才能奏出和谐的生命之歌！


Saw this when I swim through tons of blog....although I still can't do all of it bt it still good to remind one self to always be in happy state in heart and soul....also hope this can help my friends that are facing exam relax a bit....be happy haha^^

缘尽

最近为买新车而高兴，但开心却没有能维持多久，因为我的电脑忽然去世了........啊啊啊啊.........发现没电脑生活多了时间不知怎么用.....现在只好拿别人的来用，哈哈！！ 开始时，好想哭呢，但是缘尽了还能怎么样？？