Death come out of no where and suddenly...my friend lost his brother and father in one week time...I don't know how to console my friend....what I can do it pray that the deceased will reborn in a happy realm...free from suffering....and also wish that my friend will step out of sadness and move on...because the deceased will always want you to be happy and free of suffering....so let us transfer our merits to the deceased to help them free from suffering in the future...sadhu sadhu sadhu!!