Friday, July 17, 2009
真的是这样吗？？
习惯真的那么难改吗？最近看到的都是习惯....说了也没用...习惯还是死性不改....造成了很多人麻烦。学佛的不是说不要造成别人的麻烦，别人的嗔心吗？那为什么说了也等于白说，听也没有到心里去...看到这样的人不知该如何是好...haiz...自己的能力还是那么有限...不过在我看来习惯不是不能改，只是视乎你有没有去了解自己的问题，去下决心去改，习惯一定能改的，这是我一直以来的信念。忠言逆耳，只是要知道别人不是想说你而是想你变得更好，一定是自己有问题别人才会说你的，所以不介意别人所说，但一定要去审查自己，只有自己认定有问题才会有能力去改....说别人我也有很多习惯需要去改...只是最近又一个活生生的例子在我眼前而已....就像想要告诉我一定要改掉自己的不好习惯...一定能....让我们一起加油吧！！！:)
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there's always people like that around us isn't it? but like what you've said, we can't change other people if they themselves don't think that they have anything wrong with them.. all we can do is to give advice, and maybe, change our way of thinking in order to protect our heart.. gambateh! hehe..
ya...thks...like uncle vijaya say...u must walk the path urself, the buddha merely show the way...hehe...
hey, i like that poem! you remember the full poem?? hehe..
erm...nt really...sorry....bt i noe tis is a song by bro.victor wee...heard it before...bt i forgot the song name...forgot the most important part haha....i try to find for u lar....
sorry that i always being harsh on you,
i have a lot to learn too to break the habits of mine. jia you, tuck chung ! i'll jia you myself too =)
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